Men are from Mars Woman are from Venus

" Why dont u listen to what I say ? Why dont u understand my feelings? Its not what you say but how you say it matters"
Any person who has been in an relationship for a long time has said these golden words to their partners at some point or the other ...
Is it that we expect a lot from them or is it that they just dont get it ?? Why is a surprise party or flowers or anything relating to Romance or Emotional feelings mean so much to us where as for a guy it is blah blah blah!!
On one hand we dress up patiently being so selective about every small thing we wear just to woo "the guy" of our lives and there he enters the room in his hat and torn jeans talking about the awful game they had this season!!!And you begin to wonder are they always like this?? Will they ever notice the new haircut you had or the expensive perfume you just bought?? Maybe we girls should just give up the fact that the guy from a Mills and boon novel exists in real world. Maybe we all should tune our minds not to expect anything from them ... but then can we still call this relationship complete without the romance element???